When living together with someone, and they refuse to disclose their financial information is that normal?

I live with someone whom I love dearly but we keep running into an issue where he says he will not disclose how much money he brings home on his paycheck a week. We have the bills split he pays his share and I pay mine. He says he does not trust me, which makes me sad a lot of the time. I just wanted to know if this type of thing is normal? I have never encountered an issue like this before.|||With expectations, comes dissapointments. Since you are not in a committed relationship, you can not expect your roomate to disclose personal information such as this. You may have strong feelings for him, but it is obvious that he doesn't respect you by the mere fact you don't have a ring and a date. He is getting a good deal, after all. Not sure what kind of trust he speaks of. Perhaps ask him for clarification. It is obvious he does not want to share this information with you. If you don't like it, express it, and leave. Otherwise, accept it. He wants to be in control, no questions asked.|||As long as you aren't married and he is meeting his financial obligation with the bills, then it can be tolerated. However, if this is going to lead into a longer term commitment, then it needs to be addressed and not ignored. Are you good at managing your finances? If so, continue to demonstrate this to him so he can realise that he can trust you with that kind of info and that you will manage it well|||Money problems are in the top 3 relationship killers. Trust has to be number 1. Forget about the money, if he doesn't trust you then it's time for you to move on. Maybe you shouldn't trust him.|||If your only living together not married then he doesn't have to disclose the information as long as he's paying his fair share. But the fact that he says he doesn't trust you should send up a red flag.|||Typical|||yep. its normal men dont trust women with money. yeah i no its irritating