I met a great woman 3 months ago, and she is moving in:) but I was shocked to see a real drama scene when I did not want to share my personal pass codes with all my financial information (via internet) with her at this time? Was I wrong?|||No, You are absolutely NOT wrong! Gf's come and go! YOU know this already! You've been dating her for a few months! WHY SHOULD SHE KNOW YOUR passwords to your finacial assets?
I Can understand if you shared this with a wife if you were married. But why does she NEED to know? Are you sharing your money or she expecting to use it?
DONT GIVE IT TO HER!
Not like you are married and are sharing money! She doesnt need to know your passwords for any reason. If she gets mad then ask why? "tell her it's not like she "needs" it!"
WATCHOUT FOR the gold diggers! I know she may seem wonderful but this sounds pretty leary if she is getting extremely serious about obtaining that password of yours!
Tell her you just wish to keep it secret! :)|||seems like you're jumping into things kinda fast. Maybe she thinks that your relationship is more serious than you do. Sit her down and let her know where you are and come to compromises from there. The most important thing about any relationship is communication.|||yes - this is a signal that you need to read correctly
YELLOW LIGHT at minimum probably RED
yellow is proceed with caution ..... RED is stop
do you know that point that is right in the middle when the light is changing . THE FLASH , is the point you are at right now.
there is potential that :
your computer keystrokes are gonna get logged / she will open mail / email / voice mails , ALL OF IT.
a decent woman with a good intent , would not pressure, it takes time to build trust . you have known her 3 mos ? this is very fast .
why is need to live together so soon ?|||Don't do it - you should each keep your financial affairs separate - you've only known her 3 months - I, personally, would be hesitant to do it even if I got married again - my ex-wife spent a lot of money behind my back and used credit cards of mine that she wasn't authorized to use and it cost me a lot|||I agree with all the answers. My father however, always had this saying, " If you don't open your mouth, you can't get in trouble". I would strongly suggest you dump her before she tells you that she's pregant or scream rape.|||I wouldn't let her move in at all. Let her keep her own place. Get together for a few days if you two want to play house. It is so much easier and cheaper to break away when the relationship goes sour or smells like fish.|||Dont let her persuade you, stick with your instincts and talk it out. If she loves you and is worth your while she will understand. Dont Cave!
Hey, this is what the dating period is for. You didnt expect that drama so beware of any deeper emotional trauma. It's possible that she just has some trust issues, but you need to make her feel secure. The best way does not include giving passwords to eachother.
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